Renowned Ghanaian counselor, Counselor Frank Edem Adofoli has elaborated on what it means to have a perfect relationship.
According to the celebrated counselor, a perfect relationship is not one that you will never get angry, upset or irritated with each other, however, it’s how fast you resolve and bounce back to normalcy when problems are encountered.
He made this known in a recent social media post he made on his official Facebook page which reads;
“Do you tell them their mistake or tell it to others? Why tell others? These mistakes are to be corrected by the one who made them and not by others.
We are all guilty of this. We want to be heard, we want people to know we are right, that we are perfect. But the truth is, we are not. Imagine you are in their shoes. No marriage or relationship is perfect because its a company of two sinners; so don’t judge it each day by the harvest you reap but rather judge it by the seeds of goodness, forgiveness, love, care, attentions, etc that you plant or put into your Relationship.
Always remember, perfect relationship is not that you will never get angry, upset or irritated with each other. It’s how fast you resolve and bounce back to normalcy – Counselor Adofoli”